Friday, November 9, 2012

Can I really make a Difference..!!


Hi guys,

I’m Nidhi..which means treasure, I myself  do not know what treasure do I have ..? is it money..which obviously I do not have much.... or the values (personal & ethical)....which I possess since childhood by virtue of my dear parents. May be ‘Yes’..this is what is my real treasure is..!!

This is my fist attempt in writing and the credit goes to a person whom I met yesterday. A big thanks to him  and his ideology about women power.

Women like me who have two work fronts i.e office  and home, they always have one question in their mind..”AM I making a difference”... am I worth at both the places..!! and when they realize they are not making a difference or they are worthless in other words…they lose all their hope and charisma to work at both the fronts...
I would strongly recommend please release your confusion..and let yourself free…you are lot more worthy than you think off, don’t let your self-esteem dip because people around you doesn't like your way of doing things…and we all end up asking our self why it is so hard to please our colleagues and family…After all we all are human, and fact of the matter is that we can’t please the whole universe..So accept the fact. Why can’t we women accept the logic so fast why do we have to be so irrational.
Try to understand people around us will react in certain way..They will react based on their knowledge, their experiences of life and their wisdom…..we can’t change their way of perceiving things, so don’t lose your hope and trust in yourself. It is required for you to refuel or recharge your energies and inner strengths…believe me…..you really have to be positive, have faith in yourself, you really are making a difference to the people around you..
We all are certainly touching somebody’s lives in some or the other way; we just need to be positive in our approach.
Yesterday I went for giving a lecture on computer applications and at the end of the lecture a gentleman came and told me that he came with the intention of bunking the class but the lecture was so interesting, that he could not bunk the class. That’s when I realized.. That I made a difference to someone’s way of thinking. It was not my deliberate effort…but  it was natural…so I also learnt in the process that I did  make a difference….and there was something inside me which was deeply happy and contented..!! That’s what we all are looking for..!! Isn’t it...