The Real Me..

Hello to everyone..!! I really took some time to write-up the second blog..!!

Well, for all these years I was just confused about my existence on this earth….the ‘I’ in me was always quizzed whether I was born to be a professional, or to be doted daughter, a sister, a wife a mother..or so on..!! the list is endless..!! at the age of 34 I can say that these just the parts of my life…but the whole is still not known..so..the question is where is ‘I’ gone..?? Does it really exist for me..?? or for each one of us..

For all these years life was going great.. but what was that inside me..which always acquaint with me subconsciously.. Based on my experiences of life I can say ‘YES’, the ‘I’ in everyone of us exists..but how to find it out..is the next question…

Beside playing all these parts of the life, my zest for living life and giving myself the opportunity that ‘I’ being the special will never die..I guess everyone has certain dreams, certain desires , few goals of their own..may be in most of the cases their families are not aware..!!...may be few friends are…So there is golden rule which everyone need to remember that “life is a beautiful gift, and we have to live it to the fullest”…the way we wanted not the way others wanted us to live…

Otherwise we’ll be just playing roles..and keep burdening ourselves physically and mentally . That is the reason why do we females always feel stressed, exhausted and irritated in our routines. Because we are carrying heavy loads of responsibilities, care, love, affection, expected by others….i don’t think that we can carry this load too far, that’s the reason why do always look for escape whenever we can get the opportunity….isn’t it..??

I think its us who are to be blame...as we have ourselves left that ‘I’ behind. So just remove that saddle and get free, start a new day with lot of positive thoughts and remind yourself constantly that you are worth millions and don’t just play roles … just live your life..

If you are confused about anything then always try to listen to your soul…simply close your eyes and try to ask yourself what you wanted..if you desire for all the materialistic things then its not the voice of your soul instead it is from the brain..!! believe me..try to ask little harder.. and you’ll get your answer..one day..!!

I have got mine...and I'm happy..This is what matters the most..!

Can I really make a Difference..!!

Hi guys,

I’m Nidhi..which means treasure, I myself  do not know what treasure do I have ..? is it money..which obviously I do not have much.... or the values (personal & ethical)....which I possess since childhood by virtue of my dear parents. May be ‘Yes’..this is what is my real treasure is..!!

This is my fist attempt in writing and the credit goes to a person whom I met yesterday. A big thanks to him  and his ideology about women power.

Women like me who have two work fronts i.e office  and home, they always have one question in their mind..”AM I making a difference”... am I worth at both the places..!! and when they realize they are not making a difference or they are worthless in other words…they lose all their hope and charisma to work at both the fronts...

I would strongly recommend please release your confusion..and let yourself free…you are lot more worthy than you think off, don’t let your self-esteem dip because people around you doesn't like your way of doing things…and we all end up asking our self why it is so hard to please our colleagues and family…After all we all are human, and fact of the matter is that we can’t please the whole universe..So accept the fact. Why can’t we women accept the logic so fast why do we have to be so irrational.

Try to understand people around us will react in certain way..They will react based on their knowledge, their experiences of life and their wisdom…..we can’t change their way of perceiving things, so don’t lose your hope and trust in yourself. It is required for you to refuel or recharge your energies and inner strengths…believe me…..you really have to be positive, have faith in yourself, you really are making a difference to the people around you..

We all are certainly touching somebody’s lives in some or the other way; we just need to be positive in our approach.

Yesterday I went for giving a lecture on computer applications and at the end of the lecture a gentleman came and told me that he came with the intention of bunking the class but the lecture was so interesting, that he could not bunk the class. That’s when I realized.. That I made a difference to someone’s way of thinking. It was not my deliberate effort…but  it was natural…so I also learnt in the process that I did  make a difference….and there was something inside me which was deeply happy and contented..!! That’s what we all are looking for..!! Isn’t it...